Competition

The World is tackling a new Cancer

Competition

In human beings, competition is akin to self-worth as fizzy drinks are to one’s body. Winning is not really good for character-building. It really just gives one bragging rights for a short period. Competition exists as healthy and harmful entities.

Competition becomes healthy when:

  • it addresses a bigger picture with a view to benefitting the whole organisation, discipline or industry;
  • it celebrates values that individuals hold dear collectively like fairness, integrity, honour etc.;
  • an individual uses it to further their own ability to outperform themselves against themselves;
  • individuals learn to embrace and enjoy the journey as much as the end result;
  • the intention to do good or the right thing supersedes the immoral undertones;

However, it becomes unhealthy when:

  • one looks to do it to seek validation and acceptance from others
  • it’s about pulling down others and pushing myself up; It is about winning at all costs and that is all that matters. This tends to lead to disreputable choices and undermining the journey at the cost of the end result;
  • one views life in general as the need to have equality in everything. Thus, fear becomes the determining force to get ‘my’ share and deny it to someone else;
  • it leads the world to the brink of disaster because we are too busy competing and less busy building bridges;
  • winners are revered and losers are looked down upon especially when the greatest victors are those that have persistently failed and eventually succeeded;

There is a better way of ensuring that we can overcome competition. We need to:

  • Avoid competing against each other;
  • Stop comparing;
  • Be conscientious role models by watching everything we say and do;
  • Avoid making acceptance conditional on the outcome;
  • Celebrate the journey as well as the end result;

If society’s idea of a greater good is competition, it may just be because we have been too busy boxing ourselves and have not tried the alternative.

 

 

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