A simple thought from The Community on Friday: Character is a pattern of behaviour, thoughts and feelings based on universal principles, moral strength, and integrity – plus the guts to live by those principles every day. Character is evidenced by your life’s virtues and ‘the line you never cross’. From early on in the lives of the Prophets, character was an important element in the make up of religious propagation. We understand today, as well, that trust, which springs from the appreciation of another’s character, leads to long lasting business relationships.
Abraham Lincoln said, “ Reputation is the shadow. Character is the tree.“. It is no wonder, therefore, that Muslims face such incredible pressure when it comes to gaining the trust of others. Let me use a recent incident narrated to me by a friend, a young Ithna’sheri girl goes to a shop to get some work done. She is the type of girl who is not allowed the normal freedoms that other teenagers enjoy because of strict parental intervention and demands based on Islamic principles. So she snatches opportunities in their absence, and back in the shop is speaking in loud tones to her friend about different things not worried about what image she is projecting as a hijab wearing person. After a while, an Ithna’sheri young man, unknown to her, having stalked her some distance, follows her into the shop and forces her to look at what he has to sell. They exchange numbers, and life goes on.
Many thoughts come to mind, but what such and many other incidences reveal, is that because in our own lives, we are over focussing on the material and on enjoyment, we seldom know where to stop. So this becomes our second nature and so we cant stop talking, gossiping, buying and doing many other things we should not be doing.
We will probably see a lot of this on A’ashura, processions with minimal discipline and where mourners are actually appearing as though they are strolling in the park. Shabeeh, decorated to the best outfit ever hence confusing an onlooker as to how a sombre event can be so illuminated for light is the sign of joy. And yes, talking. Our people just cant seem to stop. The narrative about Aba Abdillah’s beheading is so intense that the hardest of hearts can be moved and our association with his persona, ordinarily puts us on a path of grief, but nowadays this has become the side show, as the scramble for preparing the nyaz, the noise making children and other dramatics dominate the scene. A day will come that it may be more rewarding to the heart to watch an online majlis rather than get into such rowdy crowds.
A final words to parents – your job really never ends, give the community, children who understand social behaviour, who exude confident discipline, who truly, not outwardly, relate to Imam Husain (AS). Anything less than that, is just increasing the problems Muslims already have.
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